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Possible Charges for Boyfriend of Woman Found Stuck to Toilet Save Email Print
Posted: 8:34 AM Mar 12, 2008
Last Updated: 2:33 PM Mar 13, 2008

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NESS CITY, Kan. (AP) _ The sheriff is recommending charges be filed in the case of a woman who sat on her boyfriend's toilet for so long that her body was stuck to the seat.

Ness County Sheriff Bryan Whipple said Thursday he asked the county attorney to file charges against Kory McFarren for mistreatment of a dependent adult. The county attorney will decide whether charges are brought.

"The unfortunate thing is this truly is a case of two people, in my opinion, with dimished mental capacity,'' Whipple said.

McFarren did not answer his door Thursday. But he later called The Associated Press and said he was done giving media interviews. He said he did nothing wrong.

"The only thing I am guilty of is I didn't get her help sooner,'' he said.

Sheriff Whipple said the boyfriend called his office late last month to report that something was wrong with his girlfriend. The sheriff said the woman had become physically stuck to the toilet seat. He says her muscles had atrophied and that medical personnel had to remove her from the toilet because she was bound to it by "natural means" - her body fat had grown attached to the seat.

Whipple said the woman at first refused ambulance service and "didn't want to leave.'' He says she's refusing to cooperate with medical personnel at the hospital and with investigators.

He said the boyfriend had brought the woman food and water during the two years and told investigators he asked her daily to come out of the bathroom, but she would not. He didn't say if the boyfriend explained why it took two years before he decided to call authorities.

Whipple said his office will present its report to the county attorney, who may charge the boyfriend with mistreatment of a dependent adult.

A neighbor tells the AP that he had known the woman since she was a child but said he had not seen her for at least six years. He said she had a tough childhood after her mother died at a young age and apparently was usually kept inside the house as she grew up.

(Copyright 2008 by The Associated Press. All Rights Reserved.)

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Posted by: 30189sunshine Location: GA on Apr 4, 2008 at 07:03 PM
what a freak she shouldnt have stayed on the fricin tolit

Posted by: Tom Location: Topeka on Mar 19, 2008 at 12:30 PM
Charges? Ridiculous. Not his responsibility. She should be glad he didn't take a vacation.

Posted by: WIWWTP Location: topeka on Mar 15, 2008 at 12:54 AM
NOW her family is coming out critisizing the boyfriend???? I understand that the boyfriend probably should have put up a bit more fuss but... you know sometimes time does slip away... He claims to love her but...where were the people who loved HIM? Don't you think in the course of conversation with a friend or family member that the topic would come up? And about her "family"...really if you called your daughter or you sister or aunt or friend or what ever for TWO YEARS and her boyfriend said she was in the bathroom EVERYTIME YOU CALLED.... Wouldn't you drop by sooner and have a talk with the boyfriend?

Posted by: BW Location: KS on Mar 14, 2008 at 11:40 PM
This is a terrible and bizarre story. There has to be more to it. Truth is stranger than fiction and the human phyche is a deep and misunderstood place. I truly hope that this is fully investigated. I truly hope that this lady makes a full recovery and is able to receive the treatment she needs.

Posted by: Mom Location: Kansas on Mar 14, 2008 at 05:35 PM
Just so you will know. As the mother of an adult with a developmental disability. I am homebound and my daughter lives 90 miles away I love her dearly and talk to her frequently. She gets no check from SRS but does from Social Security. It goes into her checking account and automatically pays her rent. All you readers who can step outside your door tomorrow and pick up your newspaper, remember there are some of us who can't. We still have lives and deserve not to be laughed at.

Posted by: Ted Location: Disgusted in Kansas on Mar 14, 2008 at 02:03 PM
AH, Kansas

Posted by: Cathy Location: Topeka on Mar 14, 2008 at 11:10 AM
If this lady was a dependent adult. Why don't they check into who was cashing her SRS check that person was not taking care of her at all they just wanted her money. If this man that left her on the toilet for two years he needs to be put in jail for treating someone this way and know the neighbor says he has not seen her in six years. This is not a laughing matter this is very sad

Posted by: pebbles Location: topeka on Mar 14, 2008 at 09:56 AM
How sad,I can only imagine the problems this woman may have. I'm sure if she sat that long her legs may have serious damage due to lack of blood flow and circulation. Something serious is wrong with the "boyfriend" since he did not get help for her sooner.How can he even call himself a human being.Please people stop making the rude remarks and grow up.....

Posted by: Ron Location: Topeka on Mar 14, 2008 at 07:37 AM
I think it's kinda kinky!!! No not the sitting on toilet thing but the fact that the boyfriend didn't argue about it. Never argue with a woman!!!

Posted by: keepitreal Location: Topeka on Mar 14, 2008 at 06:06 AM
Its a sad, sad story. But maybe its the ultimate Love Story. Its obvious that they both had mental issues, but he was just doing what she asked of him. Maybe he loved her so much that he just wanted her to be happy. Everyones happiness is not at the same level, hers was to be homebound and in the bathroom. Thank goodness that he finally went against her request and called for help.

Posted by: keepitreal Location: topeka on Mar 14, 2008 at 06:02 AM
I am so glad that a agreement was finally reached. Many shows on WIBW are our families favorites. But..........please Cox dont raise my rates AGAIN!

Posted by: tim Location: clay center on Mar 13, 2008 at 09:59 PM
i feel that the guy should have charges brought against his for not reporting the girl friend being stuck to the toilet sooner than he did, i mean alot sooner. It should have never gone that far

Posted by: anonymouse Location: neks on Mar 13, 2008 at 03:34 PM
This whole thing is BIZARRE!! I can't see how the boyfriend is to blame..he didn't chain her to the toilet or lock her in.. It was her choice--her blame..

Posted by: anonymous Location: emporia kansas on Mar 13, 2008 at 03:29 PM
First of all I think all of you on here that are making these humorous comments are just as sick as the boyfriend how rude! There is something seriously wrong with that poor girl, medically and phychologically. Hopefully she turns out to be ok i the end and gets some treatment .

Posted by: Anonymous on Mar 13, 2008 at 03:16 PM
i do not think charges should be filed b/c she did not want to come out that is an embarassing situation (to be stuck on the toilet) though I have never been .......but I say if she admits to not wanting help all this time then let it go she is a citizen of the U.S and can make her own choices.. I know it sounds crazy but would you want the gov regulating your life... as said before if she admits to not wanting help then let the man go free!!! i guess as the story unfolds we all will see what happens

Posted by: luna Location: topeka ks on Mar 13, 2008 at 03:03 PM
Hello why didn't he seek help sooner duh!

Posted by: ida Location: brownsville,texas on Mar 13, 2008 at 01:35 PM
Why did this woman refuse to come out of the bathroom for so long? What is the reason? Did she shower? Did she watch T.V.? How did she sleep? PLease dont tell me that they made love in the bathroom?!!!This is tooo much to understand and is the boyfriend getting help also? HOW DID THIS TOILET SITTING THING START? PLEASE ANSWER MY QUESTIONS? SHAME ON THAT BOYFRIEND!!!

Posted by: Anonymous on Mar 13, 2008 at 11:49 AM
That's definately NOT Lake Perry

Posted by: ME Location: KANSAS on Mar 13, 2008 at 11:48 AM
COMMENTS PRETTY HARSH! HER CHILDHOOD WAS NOT GOOD (THAT SHOULD HAVE BEEN DEALT WITH WHEN SHE WAS A CHILD AND COULD NOT HELP HERSELF! IF SHE CHOSE TO STAY IN THE BATHROOM HERSELF..NOT BEING MADE TO BY FEAR OF HER BOYFRIEND OR OTHERS...WE DONT WANT THE GOV TELLING US WE CANT STAY IN THE HOUSE, WE HAVE TO GO OUT WE CANT STAY IN THE BATHROOM, WE HAVE TO BE SOCIALBLE.H-LL THERE ARE DAYS WHEN IT WOULD BE EASIER TO STAY IN THE BATHROOM THAN CONFRONT THE CRAZY'S OUT IN THE WORLD. I BELIEVE IF IT WAS HER CHOICE, LET HER BE. SOME KILL, SOME ASSAULT KIDS, SOME STEAL BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT DEALING WITH THE WORLD. AT LEAST SHE STAYED AWAY FROM SOCIETY AND OUR TAXES ARE NOT BEING USED TO KEEP HER IN JAIL. YES, MAYBE NOT WHAT WE CALL NORMAL, BUT WHAT IS NORMAL.SHE WAS NOT OUT PICKETING OUR SOLDIERS FUNERALS...SHE WAS NOT CAUSING DISGRACE TO OUR STATE. SHE WAS ONLY HURTING HERSELF. SOMEOTHERS SHOULD TAKE A LESSON FROM THIS. IF YOU CAN'T COPE GO SOMEPLACE AND HIDE. DON'T MAKE OTHERS PAY!

Posted by: Anonymous on Mar 13, 2008 at 10:27 AM
Im going for 3 yrs...

Posted by: ANONYMOUS Location: KS on Mar 13, 2008 at 10:25 AM
WOW---Is basically all I could say when reading this. It is just amazing what people do to get in the news. Granted--the woman has MAJOR issues and needs meds!! Can you say medication time?? This story is just unbelievable. Anonymous

Posted by: Ruth Location: the area on Mar 13, 2008 at 09:40 AM
Maybe she was mad at him? You know women (and men) can sometimes do wild and crazy things just to prove a point.Just a thought, but that could be why the boyfriend left her in there? a two year grudge? I don't know, just a thought....

Posted by: BROOKE Location: TOPEKA on Mar 13, 2008 at 09:12 AM
Please keep us up dated on this story, i need to know what happens and why it happend. this is a good story dont let it end like this.

Posted by: Charlene Location: Kansas on Mar 12, 2008 at 10:52 PM
I feel sorry for the lady who spent 2 yrs on the totilet. What she went through was uncalled for. This man neglect her,and abused her. May God bless her and keep her away from this man.

Posted by: Frances Location: Kansas on Mar 12, 2008 at 10:47 PM
The lack of sensitivity amongst the "commenting readers" is beyond humane. The suffering that this woman endured because where she was better than any other option available and known to her should be breaking our hearts. The fact that the neighbor who stated he knew her hadn't seen her for six years is how our society forgives ourselves for non-intervention. This story should give us all pause. It is our fault as a community that this lady was so lacking in options that this situation came about

Posted by: Kat Location: FL on Mar 12, 2008 at 08:36 PM
Doesn't it get pretty cold in Topeka during the winter?? How did she sleep/bath/etc during that time?? Have to agree that anything beyond an hour would have been extremely worrisome to me.. Did he not have any visitors for 2 yrs to see what was going on?? I have about 50 more questions, but not enough room to ask them.. Hope she regains use of her legs and brain..

Posted by: Bertha on Mar 12, 2008 at 06:59 PM
Butts up? Butts happening? Butt ho

Posted by: Mary Location: KS on Mar 12, 2008 at 06:57 PM
Sounds like a good story for the Enquieror.

Posted by: SAM Location: KS on Mar 12, 2008 at 06:56 PM
So, she sat on her tuff for 2 years, never getting up at all? Unbelievable!!! Where did he go to the bathroom? What does her butt look like?

Posted by: Anonymous on Mar 12, 2008 at 06:42 PM
Boy They need each Other Both Short Of a Brick Or To,A Child Is Smarter Than that, HELLO

Posted by: heidi s Location: topeka on Mar 12, 2008 at 05:12 PM
The only part of the story I am wondering about- please can someone tell a girl what "natural means" is??!! And was there 2 bathrooms in the home, if not how did the boyfriend......

Posted by: anybody Location: NE KS on Mar 12, 2008 at 04:07 PM
Someone call Guinness......thats got to be some kind of record!

Posted by: Mary Location: Kansas on Mar 12, 2008 at 03:49 PM
Does the boyfriend have any cognitive disabilities and whether or not he does, was there no one in and out of the home in two years that should/could have been aware of the situation?

Posted by: JAMIE Location: TOPEKA on Mar 12, 2008 at 02:05 PM
Longer than ten minutes and I would be concerned, twenty minutes or longer and a person better be out by own will or with the paramedics and the fire department in tow.

Posted by: BROOKE Location: TOPEAK on Mar 12, 2008 at 12:21 PM
IT TOOK HIM 2 YEARS TO FIGURE OUT THAT SOMETHING WAS WRONG WITH HER??

Posted by: Dee Location: Kansas on Mar 12, 2008 at 12:18 PM
Wouldn't you become concerned after an hour or so, not 2 years????? Boyfriend's story doesn't make alot of sense right now?

Posted by: michelle Location: topeka on Mar 12, 2008 at 10:02 AM
yuck

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